ScholarOfLife81
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Number of ratings76
Number of reviews63
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceJul 31, 2021
Last activein last week
GenderMale
PathStep 26
People helped400
Chats6,505
Bio
Enlightenment never comes from the outside.
Sigma; I.N.F.J.-A. No b.s.
Advice is not provided; options are.
Adoption/Foster Care; Domestic Violence; Family Stress; Parenting
I have professional experience regarding these topics.
Exercise Motivation; Sleeping Well; Spirituality; Weight Management
I have personal experience in these areas.
Anxiety; BPD; Eating Disorders; Managing Emotions; PTSD; Self-Harm
I have had partners who struggled with these issues.
Breakups; Relationship Stress
Near everyone has experience with these topics; however, it is important to note that not just romantic relationships can be stressful, so this category includes *all* relationship types.
Sexual Health
I am comfortable with this topic on a general, surface level as well as regarding sexual taboos and fetishes/kinks.
***Note: I do not engage in sexual role-plays or fantasies or otherwise seek to
violate this website's policies***
Please check the above list of topics I discuss here prior to messaging; noting I do not discuss/address depression nor loneliness/boredom/casual. If I feel you fit one of these topics, or better fit a topic I do not list I address; you will be referred. You will additionally be referred if I feel I am unable to understand your English well enough to avoid miscommunication/misunderstanding. Finally, if you leave a message; leave more than just a "hi/hey/hello" relaying a brief description of your issue/concern.
Feedback & Reviews
Great, understanding listener. Helped me a lot! Thanks!
Helped me realize I was overthinking
Excellent non judgmental response
Amazing listener!!
very understanding, kind and really helped me. thank you so much for helping me
Great listener, really engaged
Nice! Recommend
Excellent listener! He’s phenomenal with helping you in any way he can. You can certainly count on him :)
super thoughtful and spiritually evolved listener
Very good thanks so much
Great experience of being really heard by wise man. I felt much better after. Thank you for being so great!
Listens very well.
Patient listener
Unlike any other listener I have spoken with. Simply amazing.
Great listener. Actually understands real life problems
Really a good listener
He is very attentive and to the point.
Kind, attentive listener. Thank you so much.
He is very patient and wise. He listens carefully and gives good insight. I liked that he has knowledge on other life realities/worldviews and doesn't judge them.Professional👍⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Wonderful listener!
Awesome listener , thanks a lot .
such a sweet man, he has helped me to look at my problems from a different perspective which has then calmed my troubled mind so much
Amazing listener ……..
Articulates their thoughts well, encouraging support. Thank you.
Gave me a new perspective on my current situation. I am glad he took the time to listen and gave me great advice.
Straight forward and sincere tips
replies fast
Thanks for your time to talk.
Asks excellent questions in a very unbiased way
patient and takes the time to reply
"The breaking of a wave cannot explain the whole sea" - V. Nabokov
It would be easy to say ScholarOfLife81 is a great listener - in fact, he not only listens but finds ways to bring a person dealing with a problem to understand themselves - interestingly enough, by understanding ourselves we become more apt at accepting difficult situations, then deciding how to best respond.
And this is - guiding a person back to their truest self - is I believe, one of the greatest gifts an enlightened person can bestow on a fellow human being. Thank you...
Best one you will ever find to listen to you and for the best advices.
Very kind and patient. Makes you feel comfortable
Very intelligent, reasonable and insightful. This listener FAR exceeded my expectations of the kind of help I was going to get. Don't hesitate to contact this listener! They will tell you the truth, what you really need to hear, while remaining calm, friendly and supportive.
Honestly has been the best listener I've had.
Wonderful listener
Very helpful! Loved this dude
really tries to understand where you are coming from!
He is very caring. Helped me to understand my problem better.
so helpful, i just felt understood afterwards
So understanding. Patient and kind
Super patient and understanding
Amazing listener
Really helpful! Gets to the heart of the issue and gives great insight
Great listener. Has a good approach to solving a problem
The best listener on this app! Haven’t even been speaking long and i feel better already, would recommend 100%☺️
You listen and respond and ask questions to really help me with my issue. Thank you!
Hes great ,,, very gentle , very respectful,, really listens and asks questions
Very helpful and a very good listener! Highly recommend
Nice to talk to
He is a good listener
listens to you thoughtfully
wonderful listener! kind and compassionate!
Very supportive
Helpful and quick at replying
Really compassionate and kind!
He is kind and understanding. Good advice.
Really wise like what other reviews mentioned.
They are helpful and responded in a really timely manner.
Very helpful and understood me quite well.
Helped me when inwas so confused! He helped me gain clarity of my situation. Recommended for sure
Best on here wise older maturer
Very helpful and always nice:)
Great listener! I appreciate the opportunity to feel heard regardless of how little my frustrations are. Thanks so much.
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