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...See more Hello! This is my first post on here so please tell me if I am doing anything wrong. I have been dating this guy for 3 years. We moved in together after a few weeks of dating because I couldn't stand going home to my toxic mother. He at the time was addicted to videogames. 15 hours a day, and when he wasn't on it he would be on the community site on his phone constantly. He would not do anything else. I would spend many nights trying to get him to come to bed at 3 am but he would refuse. He'd stay up until 6 am playing videogames. And sleep all day because of it. It took 2 years of constant nagging but he got off but it got replaced by his phone. Hes on reddit, instagram, checking the news, etc constantly. It's important to mention here that he has ADHD but I don't think that's all he has since he has such a hard time pulling away from things. He also gets very possessive because of this. When he wants sex, he will manipulate it out of me. He only cares about emotions when he's having them. But he also says "date who you want if you find someone as long as I'm still here". Lately it's been alcohol abuse. He smokes weed every day and so do I but I don't get bad reactions from it. He gets empty. I try to talk to him and he just continues doing whatever and "yes" me to death Last night I told him how I felt and he just kept watching his show and said "yep, got it, signing up for therapy Monday, whatever". The next thing he does? Grab a bottle of vodka and starts drinking. WDID?

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