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Shabdiz
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts263 Forum posts14 Forum upvotes11 Current upvotes11 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2022 Member sinceDecember 11, 2021
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I blocked a listener. Can I still review her?
Newbie Hub / by Shabdiz
Last post
 January 1st, 2022
...See more Hi everyone. I had to block a listener today kind of without delay. After I blocked her, she disappeared from my list of chats so I don't know how to review her anymore. I had not reviewed her before nor wanted to lose a second in blocking her. I was literally shaking. Can I still review her? Thanks everyone for reading and helping me out. Hope you're having a great day.
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How long is too long to wait for a listener to get back to you?
Newbie Hub / by Shabdiz
Last post
 January 1st, 2022
...See more Hi everyone. I have contacted a listener over 15 days ago, she seemed to be a really good listener accoridng to my own criteria, with a meticulous profile and requirements and I read through all. I wanted someone who's serious and a critical thinker, gives constructive feedback. She got back to me and said jm not clear enough, encouraged me to review the profile again and go over the details and requirements before we can start and specify the problem. I did so and messaged her again clarifying the topic as she requested, etc. It was 15 days ago and she hasn't gotten back to me, she's been online and offline. Is that too long? I mean I kind of wanna ask her are you going to get back to me, is it the holidays or what? But I don't know how to ask that. I don't know if I'm being rejected or what. Any advice?
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Christmas breakup+ losing my dog
Relationship Stress / by Shabdiz
Last post
 December 26th, 2021
...See more I am going to take what I can carry in my hands and on my back, and leave home. I'm losing everything I built in my relationship since 2016 and 4 years of living together. I've lost my family, my hometown, can never go back, and now my relationship, again. I'm going to lose my dog, too, because it is futile discussing he is my dog and he always has been. Because my partner loves a good fight and is such a bully. I adopted him, raised him in my house for the first 2 years alone, paid for his surgery and 90% of his bills, have had his documents in my name forever. I had to smuggle him jnto every house I rented and was kicked out soon, because there were not many pet-friendly houses. She's coparenting since 2018 that we startes living together, which is nice but it doesn't make my dog not mine and hers. She will harass me to the end of the world if I take him with me. I'll be moving into an emergency shelter soon. How many more times should I leave my home? How many times is enough...
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