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Shanemandem
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She cheated and I can't move on
Relationship Stress / by Shanemandem
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 May 4th, 2025
...See more I found the girl im dating for 5 years cheated. We were friends and classmates since we were 15. We started dating when we were 17. It was the happiest relationship I've been in. She was the best girl I've ever known. She's there when im down, and im there with her. Until this 1 day, i saw her picture with a guy on Instagram. She tries to denied it saying he was a friend. I trust her because that's what relationship is about. Trust, love and honesty. Few days later, that guy uploaded a new picture, but this time the comments were congratulating him for having a beautiful girlfriend. I couldn't breath when i saw it. Then i ask he if this was all true, and she admitted it. They were dating for months behind my back. She said she still loves me and didn't want me to get hurt so she stays quiet hoping she could find the right moment to tell me. How could a person who says they want to marry me and have kids together, live in a beautiful house and just be together forever, suddenly cheated with a guy she knew for a few weeks? For 5 years I've sacrifice a lot, i even quit my job so i could spend more time with her. The last thing she said was, "I still love you, i love you forever and I'm sorry that i hurt you this way. Im really sorry. Goodbye babe." and then she went on to block my number and block me from social media. It messes up my mind so much to a point where i literally almost committed suicide.
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