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Shayla86
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Don't know if I should hold on or let go
Relationship Stress / by Shayla86
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 November 5th, 2019
...See more My guy and I have been together for 6 and half years, engaged for a year and a half. Back in September he starting spending time with a woman that he worked with, and I found out. We made up some weeks later and since then I had major trust issues at the same time he lost someone in his family and he was grieving by drinking heavily which was making him angry. I tried to be understanding because I knew he was going through something. During this time about every two days he would pack his bags and go to his mother's house. Than on the 20th of October I found two pictures in his phone of nude woman that he was texting during our time apart and I got upset because I asked him during our time apart have to talk to any woman and said no. Than he planned a whole day with someone but he stood he up. About a week later we made up things was going ok, I still had my suspicions and last Thursday he told me he had plans with a couple of his friends. And based off his pass lies where he used his frien . I called his friend to say he wanted to confirm their plans and his friend was confused but covered. I got very upset and joined some dating sites and chatted with a guy which was a pointless conversation and than he came home all happy and talking about plans. Early around 5am the next morning I told him I text a guy and when I went back to sleep he went through my phone and packed his bags and left. Now he wouldn't talk to me. My problem is I loved him enough to forgive him. Why can't he
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