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SilverPearce
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Number of ratings9 Number of reviews1 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceOct 29, 2014 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 57 People helped13 Chats32 Group support chats0 Listener group chats0 Forum posts3 Forum upvotes0
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with any sort of issues. I enjoy being active and learning about human behaviour. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!

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Should I give my ex a second chance?
Relationship Stress / by SilverPearce
Last post
 April 23rd, 2020
...See more I have split up with my boyfriend for five weeks now. We had been together for 7 months. I left because he seemed like he did not care or love me. I was unhappy with the way he treated me from being emotionally immature and emotionally manipulative. I felt a lack of respect also. He never really wanted to put effort into the relationship and listen to any issues that we had. If he did, he was irritated and the issue was never resolved. I accept that I am not perfect either. But, I would never want to say or do anything to hurt him. I felt like the relationship was one-sided and I had put so much effort into it that I became emotionally drained. At points I grew anxiety, I doubted myself and had one or two depressive moments. After I split up with him I think it finally dawned on him that I was going to be gone forever. He has asked for a second chance and he said that he realised his behaviour was not acceptable. He said that it was never his intention to hurt me or emotionally attack me and he is sorry. He said that he knows he needs to grow and that I am worth it. A part of me wishes to get back with him from the off chance he is actually going to change for the better. But, I am very skeptical if he is actually going to or if it's just going to be temporary and back to the old ways after a while. I don't know if I should risk going back in the off chance he has woken up and wants to and actively is trying to change for the better or just move on?
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