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Marriage is falling apart
Relationship Stress / by SimpleNil
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 March 27th, 2023
...See more Hi there, thanks for reading. I’ve been married coming 4 months now but been with my husband close to 8 years. A week after our wedding, he had plans to visit his family back home which I trusted him and he went away for a month. I found out February this year that he had cheated on me with someone he had been talking to virtually. His nephews wife told me about his apparent mistress as her fb recommendation page popped up on the feed. My husband opened up to me that had been cheating when he went away after all our friends found out. If his nephews wife never saw the mistress fb business page, I’m not sure my husband would hav told me and he would still be continuing to act normal. He also opened up to me that he waa acting fake, acting fake in front of my family ans basically that he wanted to not go ahead with the Wedding but waa scared to tell He also blamed me that I had fault as well that we were not a team, he didn’t feel appreciated, I didn’t buy him things and that we weren’t transparent with money. He also opened up and told me some things which he has been unfaithful through out course of our relationship. During covid, he felt alone and had talked to many people online but with this girl he idk would you say”virtual gf” he was living a double life, I don’t know how someone can act like that but in real I was with him everyday. He basically created another version of himself online, opposite to what he is now and that’s what the mistress apparently knew that he was single. it’s complicated now and I’m scared to tell my family about our marriage breakdown but we will be getting a divorce. In my eyes, everything seemed fine but maybe when he’s with me, he’s trying to act good. My husband also opened that he feels stuck, and that he can’t do anything and that he is genuinely not happy. The other day he said it’s more of a need rather than love and that he stayed so he could use me for his application. life is tough and he’s put so much misery
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