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SleepingWaffles
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My partner wants a threesome
Relationship Stress / by SleepingWaffles
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 January 25th, 2022
...See more Just to clarify. My partner is the first person I’ve ever been with sexually. He on the other hand, had multiple partners before me- which is okay. I’m not going to shame him for the people he’s been with before me. The issue is, I’m not sure if we’re compatible. He’s admitted to me that he had a addiction towards women and he struggles with wanting attention. I’ve caught him on dating apps before and he says there’s no intention other them feeling like he’s wanted. The first time I caught him, he told me he wanted a threesome. That was 8 months ago, every two months we argue about it. It’s to the point where I don’t feel like I’m a sexual being. i mean I am, and I like having sex, but I’ve lost the confidence. He’s called me boring in bed…. And that’s embarrassing, he later said he only said it out of anger- and I told him if we could maybe bring security back into our sexual relationship I would do it… but how do I do that. How do I feel secure when I feel so insecure and ugly and not enough. He says it’s none of those things and it’s related to his own sexual trauma and I understand that- but how can I agree to invite someone into our space when that wouldn’t solve anything. you know?
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