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Sombrius
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LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by Sombrius
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 February 28th, 2021
...See more Im a 27 years old man and i recently broke up with the girlfriend i was with for 11 years due to several reasons, one is that i decided to come out as gay for good (i told her i was bi when i was 18 but it made things go really bad between us at that time and since i had troubles speaking my mind to her). So now that im 27 i feel like im not legitimate to call myself gay since i pretty much lied to everyone for more than a decade. I dont know how to cope with building myself an identity after trying to play the straight guy for so long... I also spend a lot of time trying to suppress my gay side from my teenage years to before my coming out by forcing myself to watch straight porn every week and i also looked for conversion therapy... So if you have any advice i'd be really gradeful to you guys
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