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SquirtleTurtle
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Discussed crossdressing desire with wife
Relationship Stress / by SquirtleTurtle
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 October 17th, 2022
...See more It did not go well. At all. She got incredibly angry, mostly because of keeping a secret from her. And of course I feel terrible about that. I’ve pushed it down my entire life and have never told a soul. I’m not actively dressing, but I admitted to dressing about two years ago while she was out of town. I immediately regretted it, threw everything away, and decided to shove it back down. The desire has been coming back lately so I knew I had to at least say something. I needed to just feel accepted and not a freak. But now I’m afraid she’ll never look at me the same again. She thinks it could lead me to transition, but I’m confident knowing I don’t identify with that and enjoy my life otherwise. She told me to leave for a few days. She’s been talking to friends for support and I have nobody to talk about this with out of fear of the same thing happening. I should’ve come clean sooner. I wish I didn’t have this. I genuinely don’t know what to do.
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