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Things were going well and then ended! Confused!
Relationship Stress / by Stavin
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 February 7th, 2020
...See more I met this girl! I started talking to her and then she left me on read. I waited 3 days and msged her again. Thats when things kicked off. Eventually leading to our first date. Took her for dinner at her favorite place. Then i said i could take you home or we can go watch a movie so we did. Finally took her home. She gave me one of those tight squeeze my soul hugs. The second i left her apartment i get a text about how great of a time she had. It wasnt 2 weeks later until we went on our last minute squeezed in date. Brunch. It went well. I took her home got the same hug and she ask when will i be back, and that we should go out and started listing things to do such as bowling or ice skating. A week went by and finally I was coming back in town for good for college again. I asked if she is still down for the third date (i planned to kiss her on this date) but she said work and winter class are keeping her busy and shell let me know when the week gets closer. So the week gets closer i brought the date up again and it was the same response. A gave it couple days and ask if anything was wrong. Thats when she said she didnt see us on a romantic level and things didnt connect the way she wanted to. I was sad. A week went by a friend at work with her said she mentioned me and ask if i was okay. She also told my friend what happened but it was different from what she told me. She told my friend she had great time with me on the dates but the whole dating scene made her think. Shes in nuring program which is keeping her busy and the whole dating made her think about her past (ex). So she said she wasnt ready. But why didnt she tell me that. I dont believe we didnt connect with how those dates went and for her to even plan the third date that she later canceled. The day she ended it we never really talked. Half a month went by I posted me playing the piano and she slid up on my stories and said how great i was at the piano and we had a day worth of convo. The cono lead to where you saw yourself in 10 years. She said hopeful with a job and not in school. I knew she liked kids so i said ill prob try for kids by then and ask what she think about kids. Probably to person so that she left me on read. A week went by and she msged me again. Im starting to think is she trying to talk or she's just curious about the piano. But this time i left her on read. Idk. this whole this had mix signals. I plan on giving it time and trying later. Opinions?
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