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SumBrokeGuy
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Relationship Stress / by SumBrokeGuy
Last post
 July 8th, 2022
...See more My world is crashing I have no family or friends need an ear and advice on marriage problems anyone able to help me? My wife and I fight all the time she has mental illness and goes from calm to irrational in no time. I try to remain calm and understanding but she pushes me to breaking and frustrates me so much.
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Relationship Stress / by SumBrokeGuy
Last post
 November 15th, 2021
...See more I've been going through a lot in my life recently im married with kids. My wife seems to want me to have her as my only friend However somethings are more difficult to talk to her. She tends to overreact a lot maybe things aren't coming out right or something. I've given up all friends I have 0 family either dead or want nothing to do with me. I now have a Therapist which is helping but I have to go by their time. I miss being there for my friends and counting on them to be there for me. Granted I see why she'd have a problem with the female friends but to have a problem with male friends is strange. She's been changing her attitude a lot lately her style of texting is different now. She shortens things a lit more now abbreviations and acronyms. I have no issues if she has friends which I believe she's on some site chatting. That's fine However not if I can't have friends too thats selfish. I've had something in my gut lately that she's hiding something and I'm usually right with these feelings. I've tried to talk to her multiple times and all she does is get upset. She says im accusing her of things while she's cheated a lot in past which we are working on moving past and the reason for my therapy. Yet she believes everything i talk about is leading to that. I ask if she has friends and she states no im not talking to any guys. I said friends my wind went towards females. I know I'm not innocent in all this but I don't Feel I've deserved the way she is with me. Honestly lately its like she's a puppet controlled by someone else. I would just like to find people to talk to make friends with. I don't care what the gender is since she's probably talking to guys also by how protective she gets. I just need friendship with good people who I can chat with and we can share things. Everytime I try to share with her she flips out and says im attacking her so I need someone. Thanks for reading this and look forward to chatting with some people.
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Newly diagnosed BPD
Personality Disorders Support / by SumBrokeGuy
Last post
 May 27th, 2021
...See more As the title says newly diagnosed was wrongly diagnosed for years. Have had trouble dealing with it I've hurt those I love not knowing why. Now that I know still hurts but I get it I'm getting therapy and my wife is very supportive. I'm am truly luck to have since shes dealt with my condition not knowing for 20 years. If any found anything that helps them is appreciate hearing about it.
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