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...See more Dear All, I hope you are all doing well. I have been in a committed relationship for almost three years. We lived together, we were a part each other families, we had plans for the future. Friends, family and colleagues always perceived us a great match - so did I. I always thought our relationship made us both better people, and enriched both of us a lot in different ways. However all of this drastically changed last January. During the Christmas vacation both of my parents got a brain stroke in the same week, with severe consequences. Being an only child, I had lots to deal with and I needed support. In this conditions, my boyfriend vanished. One day I took him to the airport and, right before leaving, he said he felt like he didn’t deserve me and.. he left. Without saying a word, he moved out of our house and switched off his phone. After a month he tried to re-approach me again, it seemed he wanted to fix things.. but a week later he vanished again. He refuses any contact, he even refuse to take responsibilities over certain issues he caused.. I had solve issues with our car, our rent, a robbery that happened under his supervision, and all these responsibilities are falling on me. He was the person I trusted the most, and he has been ghosting me for almost 3 months. I feel lots of anger toward him. I feel used and put away. And given the fact he refuses to talk to me, I don’t know how to get closure. I also feel lonely and I am afraid I never will able to make a family on my own… I am indeed in my late thirties. How can manage my anger? And how can I move on?

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