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Tashcampbell
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Feeling torn
Relationship Stress / by Tashcampbell
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 March 12th, 2025
...See more I'm currently in a battle with knowing if my thoughts are real or my anxious- preoccupied attachment style is in full throttle, but 3 months ago I made a big move for a man I had only had communication with over the phone for 3 years. Don't get me wrong I fell in love with him he made me feel more important then I had ever in my life ,not only that he's the first guy I built a mental relationship with before a physical one and it really felt so healthy until now. I felt more wanted by him when we lived 3 hours apart and this all started happening just a month after I decided to actually let my heart have control. The thing is I know I'm a lot to handle but all I need is validation and reassurance and when I try to communicate things. I feel he acts like because he  says he loves me that should be enough for me to not think he's going to just leave, maybe I've showed to much interest  . Ive tried to push him away a lot in 3 years I gave him every reason to just leave me alone and live his life and he never budged. Was the excitement of not having me keeping him hung on and now that he does have me he isn't as interested. Don't get me wrong the passion is there and he has been the most patient man when it comes to my overthinking but I think it's because he knows he is causing it and he won't just empathize with me he insists that I should just know he wants me and only me forever, I need more then that I want to feel valued . I could very well just be overthinking things but why if he loves me so much doesn't he want to show me affection ,not just when I initiate it I am madly in love with this man and Im at the point where staying is driving me crazy but leaving will destroy me 
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