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...See more So I've been seeing this girl for quite some time. We moved in together, and are very good for each other. She's still hasn't really gotten iver her Ex, but that is a separate issue (maybe I'll get into it later) The other day we were getting intimate, and I suggested we try something (a little more adventurous) to which she responded "been there, done that, got the T-shirt" so I didn't want to tell her that it was something I wanted to do. Anyway, I know she has quite an extensive sexual past, and it is something I am dealing with, it has never been a deal breaker for me, we all have pasts. But a big thing for me is experiencing things with together with someone, whether it's traveling to a place neither of you have ever been, or eating food neither of you have ever tried. Her sexual past is quite broad, and she has done 'almost' everything I can think of. I haven't brought anything up she hasn't done. Anyway, I don't really know how to deal with the fact that she probably won't have any sexual firsts with me. And we won't explore new things together. It's not a deal breaker, but it does make me anxious, if she's tried things and expects me to know or do certain things. I also sometimes wonder if sex with me will ever be as good as she's had, and things like that. I think having another female's perspective on sex would be helpful here, because I think men and women think differently about sex anyway. Thank you in advance!

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