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TheLittleWraith
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PathStep 5 Compassion hearts11 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes4 Current upvotes4 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2021 Member sinceJune 24, 2021
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Rebound
Relationship Stress / by TheLittleWraith
Last post
September 25th, 2021
...See more I have been in a rebound relationship. He still loves his ex and he said we should just stay as friends. I want to make him happy and realize that it is a possibility he can have with me. I do not understand why he doesn't choose me as he said himself that I was the first person to ever compliment his appearance. I check up on him daily to see if he is doing ok. I know him and his ex are none of my business and I do not interfere. I do not want to know who she is or how their relationship was. It's not important. It's important now that he's struggling to get over it. I am also avoiding puting my feelings into it. I only knew of the rebound right before he asked us to be friends. I feel hurt, but I am a hopeless romantic. I believe if people try hard enough endless love is possible. I describe myself as someone who has too much love to give, as I have no problem giving 101% of my love to my partners. Is it bad that I believe if he gets over his ex we still have a chance together? It doesn't bother me to the point where I am crying or deeply bothered. I just feel a little sad that he tried to find a rebound as a cry for help. I am glad he came to me though as I did not lash out and give him more trauma with relationships. I just hope he can see that I care, and that I will not hurt him. Is it bad that I am thinking like this?
Do you support polyamory?
Relationship Stress / by TheLittleWraith
Last post
July 5th, 2021
...See more My partner and I are currently in an open monogamous relationship but I want to venture off into polyamory. My partner fully supports this change as long as they stay monogamous. Though it feels impossible for polyam relationships to start in this world. It is especially hard to find non-monogamy at my age as well. It feels like I do not belong on this Earth. That it is impossible for me to be at my most free state for society has made it normal to hate the style in which I love. So I ask, can anyone relate, or are there monogamous people who support polyamory?