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...See more I have an ex who I still love to pieces. Him and I were close friends for 3 yrs/dated for 8M. Before dating him, he knew I was in a abusive relationship that left me damaged but he was there for me. All the damage went into this relationship and damaged us from the start. We had so many fights but always found each other in better places and we have continually grown as people. We both moved from our hometowns, he got work, I went to uni, we made new friends, etc. Within the last month things went really bad. I went on tinder (we broke up August ‘18), I matched with his friend (didnt know they were friends), didnt flirt but we became friends. My ex blocked me out of anger and for some reason it didnt make me cry but I was like wtf. Later on found out they were friends, he called me some bad names but then on a drunken night out with my family, we went to his work (I was still blocked on social media so I didnt know he was working) and bumped into him and we finally go to talk it out and since then things have been great for him and I (the space apart did us well) but my family ganged up on me, blamed me for being at his work place cause I told them what he called me but Im such a loving and forgiving person but they are right down my throat about it. I cant think straight, I keep shaking. I worry way too much about other peoples negative options and try to please everyone. I always sacrifice my happiness but I feel safe here. Please help :(

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