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Theexoticnay
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I love him but don't know how to fix what I did😕
Relationship Stress / by Theexoticnay
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 September 2nd
...See more I really need some advice about my relationship because I honestly don’t know what to do, Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now and I really love him, but lately things have gotten bad because of trust,I did things in the past like  replied to an old fling the first two weeks into our relationship and that hurt his trust in me, and I lied about some things because I was scared of losing him and scared of how he would look at me if I told him the truth. I know that was wrong and I take responsibility for it. I understand why he’s hurt and why it’s hard for him to trust me now especially because he’s been cheated on before and already has a hard time trusting people,but the problem is he keeps saying that all his trust in me is gone and that he’s never going to trust me again,He also said things that make me feel like he thinks we’re not going to last,and that’s what I don’t know how to deal with because I feel like you literally can’t have a relationship without trust. I'm willing to do whatever I can to rebuild it and show him through my actions that I can be trusted, but I don’t know how I’m supposed to fix something if he already feels like it can never be fixed. We argue a lot too, and sometimes we both say things that hurt each other when we’re angry. I’ve said things I regret and I know I need to work on how I handle arguments because I don’t want us to keep hurting each other and then just going back to normal. At the same time, we still love each other and we still talk every day so it’s not like there’s no love there. That’s why idk what to do, I don’t want to leave him, and I don’t want to keep forcing a relationship that isn’t healthy either. I really want to know if this can actually be fixed and what BOTH of us can do to fix it. How do you rebuild trust after it’s been broken? How do you know if someone is actually trying to forgive you versus just staying but never being able to move past it? And if he says he’ll never trust me again, is there even a way for us to have a healthy relationship?
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