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TinyChipmunk
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Confused and anxious
Relationship Stress / by TinyChipmunk
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 May 13th, 2019
...See more So my fiancé suddenly moved out without much notice. The day he moved out, he told me that we are still together for now, that he just felt suffocated and needed space, and wanted to see if he would miss me. He said we could talk later in the week. I did not really contact him for a couple days and he reached out to talk. We talked 2 says ago, during which he said we are still together for now. He said that he felt really anxious and stressed when we lived together. However since moving out, the negative feelings have started fading and hes thinking more of the positive sides of our relationship. He told me he missed cuddling with me. He also said he felt like he couldnt fully be himself around me because sometimes I made it seem like I was judging him. That was never my intention and I never intended to make him feel suffocated. I think I have a much better understanding of him now and what his needs are. I believe that I can make the changes to make him happy in our relationship. However he is still hesitant because he doesnt fully believe that I can change. Im not sure what to do. I can tell he still loves and cares about me, and I love him a lot too. I wrote him a letter to apologize which I gave him when we met up. He seemed to receive that positively and I even got a smile out of him from that. I dont know what to do going forward and how to convince him that I can change. To me it feels hopeless because he was hurt by me. I just want to make things right between us. Is there hope in this situation?
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