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Tobelawyer05
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Issues with my father
Family & Caregivers / by Tobelawyer05
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 April 12th, 2025
...See more My father and I had an extremely difficult relationship from my childhood because he had hoped for a baby boy and I unfortunately for him came out as a baby girl. Our relationship had gone its ups and downs but currently its hit an all time low. I am a part of a joint family where the divisions havent been fair to us. So he has completely lost his *** and is making terrible financial decisions. It seems as tho he is in self destruction mode and when i beg him to take wise actions he like a child sells off more stuff. He told me that he would love to watch me struggle. I am currently financially dependent on him but i feel extremely stuck because i don’t know the man nor do i trust him. With no financial security and constant uncertainty of living with a narcissist i have been feeling lot of anxiety and self harm issues. I feel stuck.
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