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Tom152
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Too little too late?
Relationship Stress / by Tom152
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 November 22nd, 2018
...See more Me and my girlfriend broke up about 10 months ago, she spent about 6-7 months fighting for us to try again bit I wasn't ready and was still battling my own thoughts as well as losing my grandfather right in the middle of it, so I was pretty much an emotional wreak for at least a month, I needed support from her but every time we would talk it would just be a flood of her emotions and push to get back together, in the end we had a pretty big fight and didn't talk for 6-8 weeks wich really was the first bit of space i got. The starting point for it all for me was a pretty big fight between us and her parents. I was living with her at hltheir house and altho it wasn't the first fight I ended up getting involved in it was certainly the biggest. We both moved to my parents but the stress of this was too much for her but I couldn't sympathise because I had put up with it for 3 years prior, so it just cause tension she ended up saying we needed to take a break which I agreed with but didn't realise this would result in her living in my camper trailer in the vacant block next door to my parents. I was still catering for her and never got the space we said we needed so it just caused resent. During the time we didn't talk I started to think about things a bit differently and more importantly came to recognise what was causing the issues as well as how this had made me behave in the relationship.
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