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Tyedyedbutterfly65
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Number of ratings182 Number of reviews86 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJul 14, 2018 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 3,940 People helped417 Chats3,447 Group support chats4,119 Listener group chats3,869 Forum posts2,618 Forum upvotes3,577
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   RETIRED FROM 7CUPS  AS OF 9-13-2023 . PLEASE BROWSE LISTENERS. I NO LONGER TAKE CHATS AND I HAVE DROPPED ALL MY BADGES. 

           ❤ "VOLUNTEERS ARE NOT PAID,NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE WORTHLESS ,BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE PRICELESS "❤

            ❤️  I am a Christian- Married-Female ❤️

         















 




 



 


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Standing Strong
Young People of Color / by Tyedyedbutterfly65
Last post
 February 19th, 2023
...See more I am here becuase I wanted to talk about Standing Strong.. Standing Strong , what are we standing strong for ? It can be the color of our skin the place we came from or still live ... I grew up in a really poor home life but it taught me how to be a survivor and that no matter what someone called me which they did I was called the fat dumb one , also Eskimo girl , Indian girl , Poor Girl.... I was heavy set and I was dark skinned and I did have a round face and yes like I said very poor... words hurt they cut to the bone and even more so as a child..I laughed the words off but when pushed down and kicked it hurt even more.. but I did not fight back because I didn't know how to back then so I stayed hidden or missed as much school as I possibly could and then went home and did the chores on the farm.. My Granny and Grandpa had a small farm and no running water no inside bathroom and very little to eat . I did alot.. but I still hurt so deep on the inside from the Bullying but what I went through finally made me see I could stand up and say what I was thinking and yeah finally I did knock some people on their butts lol... I did. I never judged anyone by how they looked or how much money they had or didnt have.. I love everyone no matter what !!! Staying Strong is something we have to do for us but also for those that are growing up to see how we adults live and act and how we use our words.. Words can leave a wound so deep , my memories are still with me but what was said to me and done to me made me one tough cookie !! Stand Strong in what you believe in, How you treat others and yourself. Know that no matter what color our skin is we are all human beings and we not perfect because no one is but we can still stand strong right!!! I raised my son to never treat a woman bad or any other human being and dont judge anyone by what color their skin is or where they are from and he turned out to be one of the most amazing husband to his wife, I am so proud of him !! I will say in the area I live in racism is still alive in some areas and in some of the people i know and I am always saying something to them and I may lose a family memeber or a friend but I do not tolerate that kind of behavior!! STAND STRONG IN WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU STAND FOR!! So sorry I ramble and may not make any sense but I am okay with myself lol.. I know some who look at my post probably think she does not know how to use proper grammar or she is not using puncuation or spelling properly ... lol well if I am judged by all these thats okay with me.. I am not one who cares I stand strong in knowing who I am ! Peace , Love and Happiness TDB
Anxiety about Back Pain
Anxiety Support / by Tyedyedbutterfly65
Last post
 July 23rd, 2018
...See more I am so anxious about the back pain and the head pain!! I am so drained with my back pain it is so miserable and the head pain I am already using a walker and wheelchair so I am scared soon I will be totally paralized and I will be in worse shape then I already am!! I had brain surger in august of last year and my back pain is worse then the brain surgery I have had a bad back for years but tis gotten so much worse I am suppose to be seeing two new doctors soon but I am so scared they will say the brain tumor is back and the your back is totally shot and we can not help you!! I ask people about their backs and they say they have to suffer through and that surgery did not help them at all or they were made worse by surgery!!! I dont want to feel like this anymore I want to be able to drive and walk!! I do not take pain meds because that really solves nothing in the long run. Any suggestions? Thanks , TyedyedButterfly
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What a wonderful, compassionate listener. Finally a listener that cares and that I can truly believe in!
I have never met such a lovely listener! They helped me look at the positives in a horrible overthinking situation. They were really reassuring and helped keep me grounded so my mind did not wander. ❤️ Tye was so kind and sweet and made me feel comfortable to discuss and share things I felt embarrassed and worried about! I couldn’t ask for a better listener 💖 such a lovely person with amazing skills to make people feel welcome. When talking with them it made me feel like I have known them all my life as they were so comforting and reassuring! Thank you for everything. You deserve the world 🌍
Has supported me thru some hard times.
They really care about me and i can share anything with them. They are available when i need someone, never judge and always encourage me in my goals❤️
She's wonderful, what else is there to say? So glad I can know her!!
Very attentive and was helping me with going thru my anxiety at that time
She is one of best listener I had come across, I do have a lot of memories with them...they just make my day by making me smile and they make sure the member is fully satisfied...I had seen them in lsr...and they are one of mentors whom I love the most and they are like my mom who makes sure that I stay happy...I am just so grateful for having them in my life so that I am able to experience this love...care and all the amazing things they had showered upon me. Thank you so much for helping the community 💖💖💖
Thankyou so much for your ongoing support! I have known you for a couple of years now and you have been so caring and understanding and we can have a laugh as well as talk about whats not so great! Thankyou so much for everything Tye!! (((((Hugs))))) -Joy 🦄💜
Best Listner ! I loaf you butterfly
Amazing listener, really took the time to hear me out and support me however she could. She goes above and beyond for all of her members. Highly recommend!
Was extremely helpful in guiding me on the Seven Cups site!
She's a great friend and a great listener as well. She's the best!
This listener is amazing. Shes the best!!
Loved the interaction with her.
Thankyou sooooooooo much! I don't know what i'd do without having Tyed to chat to. So kind and supportive doesn't force you to talk about things you not comfortable to. Really nice as they are sorta able to relate me regarding health issues and it makes me feel less alone. They really looked after me and talked to me through my thoughts and feelings. I can't thankyou Tyed enough!!!!!!!!!!! They're Awesome
very great and caring
I feel lucky to have have met such a warm person. I was comfortable sharing my situation and the conversation was one of the best I have had on 7cups. Thank you for your time. God bless u
Such a sweet, empathetic person. She has so much wisdom to share. Could not recommend more!
Great to chat with, she checked to see how I'm doing and I feel cared for :)
Very helpful and kind.
An amazing person
Talked for a very long time!
She took time to work with me even though she no longer does 1 - 1 chats
Tyedyedbutterfly65 was so kind and understanding, i felt so much better after having a chat with her.
She was a great listener and gave lots of good feedback
Kind, Understanding , reasurring, honest and made me smile.
Awesomeness all the way
Wonderful listener! Finally someone who understands me.
Amazing all around :)
Loved it! Awesome chat!
Very responsive
Once again TyeDyeButterfly is a great listener and I have talked to her for a few months
She has been really responsive
Great person! very helpful in a genuine way.
Really responsive and helps me move forward
Great listener!
Good listener 👍🏻
This truly gracious listener expresses such compassion and candor, imparting understanding and appreciation for what the speaker has to offer.
nice person happy to talk with
One great listener, really!
very understanding...made me feel at ease and helped lessen the anxiety i was experiencing about a medical problem....great listener...very helpful...
Prompt, kind, understanding... what more do you need?
she is so sweet ,the conversation was very lovely, felt like she is a friend, i recommend talking to her
Wonderful listener and overall great person.
Very kind and passionate
Awesome Listener, would recommend for anyone wanting a friendly person to talk with
The best listener ever. I went from feeling like at 3 to 10! Literally. It was a really nice experience. Thanks for being such an awesome person.
Very helpful, understanding and supportive
Good Listener, Calm and good adviser.
Was very patient with me, and heard me out. She gave me good suggestions and encouraged me a lot to try the suggestions. Thankyou.
shes cool and helped
Very good listener... allowed me to be open and honest
Very good listener
Thanks for listening, some things I hadnt thought about1
Good place to talk
Very responsive and good listener
she was awesome and she really got to the root of my problems and didnt just focus on what i was experiencing then what really helped me
Very thankful for her!
Thank you for the help
Very Positive Listner, Thank you for being here
Great advice and great listener
one of the best listeners that I have chatted to she is very proffessional caring supportive and understanding 5 stars
She is great!!!
Tyedyed was so, incredibly helpful! They were very understanding, compassionate, caring, kind and patient. I really felt cared for and really listened to. Such an excellent listener! I hope they stick around to help many others with their listening skills!
treats me pretty well
Very good in replying...
She really helped a lot, helping me to ask myself the good questions and to listen to what I needed deep inside. You can trust her !
Super amazing. A great listener, helps you work your way through whatever issues. The best I’ve communicated with so far
She is amazing so far
she's extremely helpful and open, someone insightful and patient. Definitely recommend her.
Tyedyedbutterfly65 was very quick to respond and gave me real good advice. Many thanks to her!
Shes great! Helped me figure out some coping mechanisms
My conversation with Tyedyedbutterfly65 was helpful and I highly recommend other members to reach out to her if you are in mental distress,
Such a nice person and really cares what you have to say
caring kind person takes the time to follow up one on one
Awesome. Totally admire her for being here for me.
Helped me out by lifting my spirits in a time of distress! Thank you!
she is very helpful
she's really nice and open and just honest
good listener
very helpful and kind !
She is so good. Love her
Beautiful listener
Easy to speak to and no judgement. Really felt Listened to
Awesome
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