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Typeone601
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Why i have to be negative
Depression Support / by Typeone601
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October 6th, 2017
...See more you ever think about something happening and you become so happy that this thing is going to happen and you get super excited? thats me almost every day and guess what, it doesnt happen or something goes wrong. im so tired of getting super excited to only get torn down constantly. i wish i could just shut my brain off so i dont have these feelings anymore.
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Stuck between my heart and fear
Relationship Stress / by Typeone601
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June 10th, 2017
...See more You give you a brief history. Me and my ex were together for two and a half amazing years. About a year ago he broke up with me and i was a wreck, he was the one and him breaking up with me made it feel like he hated me. During this year i went to my friends and to two different consulors to try to get back to were i was mentally and they all said i should just move on and forget about him. I couldnt. we saw each other a few times during this year as friends and with a group of friends and did talk about random stuff. A few days ago i texted him and we have been texting ever since. it was just silly back and forth until it started to get a bit flirty, it got to the point were we started opening up to each other again. he still loves me. but by the end of the year he will be moving states and starting life out west. he doesnt what me to be hurt again and thinks long distances will hurt me more. i dont knkw what to do anymore, my heart wants me to be with him again and happy but we are both too scared of getting hurt. please help
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Am i crazy??
Relationship Stress / by Typeone601
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May 2nd, 2017
...See more Am i crazy to still be in love with my ex?? its been 10 months and i havent stopped thinking about him and we tried talking again but our schedules dont line up so its hard to talk and i know he hasnt tried to move on with anyone else. im a confused mess of emotions just trying to deal with life
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Meeting my ex after months of not seeing each other and what i learned from it (Me just kindof venting)
Relationship Stress / by Typeone601
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January 18th, 2017
...See more Six months ago the love of my life broke up with me, we were together for almost three years. In these six months I havent been happy, i cant even count the number of times I replayed the break up and tried to relive some of my favorite memeories of the relationship. I thought he was mad at me for getting extremely angry at him or that he was leaving me for someone else or that he didnt love or care about me anymore. Within these six months we have seen each other a few times but with a large group of friends around. Practically almost everyone i know wants me to move on and completely forget about him, but i cant do that. My therapist suggested trying to reach out to him about two months ago and for once a week we were talking like nothing ever happened. I was probably at my happiest just texting him once a week and also frustrated at myself for getting worked up when it would sometimes become too much for me. Today we actually met up for lunch and talked about old times and we did end up talking about our relationship. He said we had falling into a rut and would do the same things over and over again losing the spark that we had when we first met. This was something i never thought about. It was true that we did the same thing throughout our relationship like just stay at one of our houses and just snuggle up on the couch and watch the Food Network, but i never really minded it, i was just happy we were together. Thinking about it now, we were both terrible in the relationship, there are things i know i need to work on and i know he does too but deep down i still want to give it another go I know he is the one for me, i want to try and get back together but knowing none of my family or friends approve and would rather see me move on makes trying to find an answer to my problem more difficult. I know i love him but i dont know i would be able to handle if anything goes wrong again. So here i am now, typing my thoughts and feelings to complete strangers just because i have no one else to talk to about this who wont just flat out tell me what they want me to do. Im open to any advice you can give me. Thanks for putting your time in to help someone who normally never asks for help. :)Thank you
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Need Help AsaNow
Relationship Stress / by Typeone601
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December 20th, 2016
...See more Im meeting my friends and my ex tonight before a friend moves away i cant stop worrying about seeing him again even with me and my ex texting each other once a week and everything seems normal I need help so i dont break down into tears again
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How do I explain that I don't care about the future
Relationship Stress / by Typeone601
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December 21st, 2016
...See more Hello, me and my ex met in our first year of college and were together for probably the greatest two and a half years of both of our lives. We only had one fight about how he stood me up at a friends wedding that i was willing to forgive him for because i knew i stilled loved him and i could move past it. He broke up with me a few weeks after the fight saying he still cared about me but thought i could do better with another guy and that we would fight in the future and ending now would save us the pain. I was completely heartbroken, i could barely sleep, never ate and was to upset to sit in class or work, i went downhill fast and it took me months to get somewhat back to normal. After 4 months of not talking to each other we met up at a party and we agreed to start talking again. We text about once a week and I just want to tell him that i want to get back together but im too scared to ask and too worried that he doesnt love me anymore. Please, i need help
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