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Undesirable92
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Wife and I battle over many sexual issues, and I fear divorce is our only option.
Relationship Stress / by Undesirable92
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 January 29th, 2019
...See more My wife (28) and I (26) have been fighting over sexual issues for literally ever. But more so sliver the past few weeks cause I am finally at my breaking point. We have always fought over frequency cause she almost never wants sex. Well recently she told me she would be willing to do it once a month or bi monthly, but that she dont ever want it more than that. And I wouldnt want it more if she didnt cause then its pointless duty sex, and at that point Id rather use my hand. So I let her know in great detail what sex actually means to me and how I need more that that. Her responce? Idk what to tell you then cause I cant do more than that. Currently its like 2 or 3 times a year. Been that way since we met. But no talks have fixed it. I suggested we take it away permanently and live celibate so that the stress from the rejections and constant hoping for something that never happens is eliminated on my end. And my pestering her for it is gone in her end. But she refuses to do that. On top of all of this, she has a huge fear of pregnancy & hate kids, so she never wants them. Which I dont either. But in another discussion we had recently I mentioned to her by that some miricle chance her libido increased (which is not happening) & we were able to work through this, that we still would fight over sex do to condom use being required forever and also her unwillingness to compromise on that and her refusal to take bc as an alternative to the condoms. So idk anymore..
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