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...See more I had relationship with my girlfriend for 6.5 years, but we hit a really rough patch, so I did the dumb thing and asked us to have a small break for ourselves, so that we could gather up our strength again, I had no intention of even looking at other women, I really just needed some time to get my head straight, as due to several issues (work stress, she was unemployed, family issues and others) I felt like I was wearing quite thin, and needed room to breathe. She was reluctant, she thought I was leaving her, but I assured her that was not the case, and we kept speaking to each other everyday, but just didn't see each other, that is up to a point, 3 months later, I told her I was back on my feet, I had resolved some issues and learned how to deal with others, so I wanted to not only get back to seeing her, but also finish up the preparations for our wedding. Problem is, she then told me that she was dating another man, for 2 months already at that... That information completely broke me, it felt like I was thrown under a bus, broke every bone in my body and simply wasn't able to die from it... But the real kicker was that in those 2 months, she had already engaged him in sexual activities, while we never did it, as we are both Christians, and we're waiting to do it only after getting married... So not only was she dating someone, she had already given him more than ever thought possible with me... I have more info on this, but the character limit won't allow...

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