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...See more Not sure if this is the place to post, but I have a ton on my mind. I got into a huge argument with my partner of 10+ years last night over finances. When we moved we made an agreement since I made less and have student debt that I would use any excess money to throw at my loans to get my debt down. He argued with me that he provides everything for me to live a comfortable life and basically threw it in my face. And I was trying to say finances aside, you aren't there for me emotionally. But he thinks his actions of "providing" for me is enough. Granted I ALWAYS express how grateful I am to have him in my life, I try to build him up as much as possible, support him in everything he does. I come home from my full time job and make sure everything is clean, I make dinner, I take care of our puppy, etc. So when he comes home he doesn't have to worry about anything except relaxing. He does mostly do the dinner dishes after we eat...which is mostly putting them in the dishwasher, but I sometimes feel taken for granted. He never compliments me, isn't romantic, I guess I just want to feel loved. And whenever we fight its usually my fault and my issues that cause everything and says I am the entire reason we haven't moved forward in our relationship. IE.why he won't propose. That to me sounds so conditional from someone who is supposed to want to be with you. I've rambled too much. Just a lot on my mind.

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