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W3STM1L3
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26 M

Christian

I joined to find people to talk to and I am also here to listen to problems other people are going through.

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I am lost and broken (26 M)
Relationship Stress / by W3STM1L3
Last post
 October 7th
...See more I recently got married. My wife brought me far from home I left everything behind to be with her. She said she was Christian and made sacrifices to support me so I married her. I started working and gave her everything I also completely changed myself to make her comfortable. Not even a week after we got married she went on a dating site and started matching with people and said it was my fault because I don't show her I love her and that she was doing nothing wrong and that it wasn't cheating. She told me I was lucky that she was giving me chance and that I need to change and show her I love her. I am always desperately trying to prove my love to her. I came here with nothing and give her everything but nothing I say or do means anything to her. She says horrible things to me all the time and calls me stupid for anything I do that she don't like no matter how small it is. She doesn't support me emotionally and blames me for everything. She stopped wearing her ring and doesn't say she loves me and yells at me anytime I try to talk about how I feel. It just gets worse and worse and I am somehow always the problem and she never takes accountability for anything she does or apologizes. I don't know why she is like this but I am so deeply in love with her I just let her treat me like this. I have never loved someone so much that I would feel comfortable to marry. I just keep trying and I don't understand why. I gave her all the money I made so I can't afford to go back home and I just lost my job. I don't know how someone could break me down like this and I don't know what to do. I honestly just want to make things work even with how bad things are. I can't even say the worst parts of what is going on. I am so confused on how someone could do so much for me but also treat me like this and now I am completely hopeless and lost mentally
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