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Wanderingmushroom
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My girlfriend of 5 years hasn't loved me in over a year
Relationship Stress / by Wanderingmushroom
Last post
 August 4th, 2025
...See more I feel so sick my girlfriend who i was long distance with for 3 years and lived together for a year broke up with me over the phone while i was visiting family and said she hasn't loved me in over a year. I thought we were going to get married and grow old together. Everytime I brought up relationship issues she'd just calm me down by saying we were solid and nothing would get between us. Now im living with my parents again and have to plan a trip to the apartment to move all of my stuff out and she won't even be in the apartment when I move because she's hurt I'm not willing to just stay in my room and grieve alone and want to move away
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Polyamorous- partner started dating someone while we're in the middle of a fight
Relationship Stress / by Wanderingmushroom
Last post
 July 20th, 2025
...See more My partner Lucy and I got into a fight the day after I started my month business trip and we can't talk through our problems until I get home from this trip. Before I left Lucy had started pursuing Fae for a few months and a few weeks into knowing each other they started dating but because of reasons I won't dive into they put their relationship on pause with the full intention of starting up again any time. Last week I checked our shared calendar and saw Lucy had scheduled a date with Fae to make their relationship official and I was heartbroken because I had to find out through the calendar. I'm conflicted because I fully understood and supported the two getting together but it feels like really bad timing because of our fight where I've already expressed to Lucy a fear of us breaking up over the fight. I wish they would have waited until after our fight was resolved but I feel like I can't complain too much because the intention of dating was already made clear before I left and time can't stop just because I'm having problems. I feel powerless and alone
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