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Working0nMe
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Relationship Stress / by Working0nMe
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 September 11th, 2024
...See more Okay so me and my partner have been together for coming up on two years. As everyone knows all relationships have their issues especially because we are both 20 so we are young and we lived 1 1/2 hours away for months now we live 45 mins away over the past couple of months he has not been in school and does not have a job and has been putting less and less effort and energy into our relationship and every time I bring it up it turns into an argument. On our anniversary he had his friends come over his house and they all hung out while I just sat there and watched. He didn’t even say happy anniversary then again neither did I because I was waiting for him so that’s on me as well but recently we have been fighting so much and that’s simply because he never reaches out I’ve told him I feel like I’m always the one to initiate hanging out or even a “conversation” it’s getting so stressful I’ve even brought up if he needed to take. A break and he didn’t want to and neither do I. He told me tonight that he’s been feeling like all I do is nag him and when he sees my name pop up on his phone calling him he just grunted he said it was because it’s always something negative. He knows I have trust issues like really bad and he has not done anything to ease them through any of our issues. I simply don’t know how to fix our issues and if it really is just me. Maybe I’m focusing too much on the negative. But another part of me is like at least give me bare minimum like call me once in a while and he replies with well by the time I get home I don’t have the energy like what. If you love someone you make the time and find the energy. Am I being crazy or is my relationship one sided ? Do I break up with him? Do I wait it out? Please someone give me some advice!
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