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Not wanting to let go?
Relationship Stress / by YouAreAFever
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 July 14th, 2021
...See more My ex girlfriend of 4.5 years and I broke up 2 months and one week ago. During the first 45ish days after the breakup I was completely devastated. Now I feel I am starting to get better and my feelings and thoughts of her are changing a bit towards acceptance. I stopped looking for answers, repeatedly vieweing past events in my head, having obssessive thoughts, blaming myself, started with therapy, etc. Yes, I feel sadness for the end of the relationship, but I am sort of getting my life back together. The thing is I feel bad for it. Some part of me feels bad, somehow, because I am now seeing myself starting to move on. This is very confusing. I tell myself she is starting to heal too and we are going to be okay in time, maybe in an attempt to comfort myself, but I still have this inner battle going on between feeling well by myself and missing her greatly.
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