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Listener - Virtuoso 4

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Hello! looks like you've landed on my profile so welcome.

I've tried to write a good bio for a while however have just come to the conclusion
that a sincere writing, that helps one another is all that is really necessary.

I know you are here because you may be struggling or going through a rough time,
perhaps feeling misunderstood or unheard or invalidated, I am sorry this happend to you
and I also know how that feels. It can be difficult and disempowering.

I am here to listen, empathize and try to understand your situation as much as I can, having
gone through difficult times myself I believe I may be of a good asset. Sometimes all that is
needed is someone to hear us, really resonate with us and that empowers us to get up and 
change our situation. Other times it is where patience is required until we are able to take
the right action. While I may not know exactly where you are, or which stage. I would like
to encourage you to reach out and give it a try, if you are ready to embark on the unknown,
since neither of us know if chatting will help or not, and being vulnerable infront of one another-
a stranger, is even all the more daunting and makes it all the more difficult. Read, see if the way I write
or think resonates with you or not, and either reach out to me - or pick and choose someone else whom
you feel you can connect with. 

At the end of the day.. I believe we all know what we need, and the last thing you need is someone telling you
how things should be or what you should do exactly, even members who ask what they should do I find after
chatting with them, in truth - they know what to do, but they are asking out of a place of having exhausted all
options and are just looking for someone to really connect and unravel the mysteries of the emotions they are
struggling to deal with. So..!

Take heart, and go forth - or just sit back and visit the community room, there are awesome supports in the Support room
which is available 24/7 and the member community room.
 
 
Number of Ratings: 36
Number of Reviews: 26
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Nov 21, 2019
Last Active in last month
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 61
Cheers 192,853
People Helped 105
Chats 2,510
Group Support Chats 185
Listener Group Chats 166
Forum Posts 32
Forum Upvotes 32
Categories
Depression
Loneliness
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Subcommunities Build Confidence
    Completed step number is 60, on December 10th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Is Your Tank Full
    Completed step number is 59, on December 7th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Group Support
    Completed step number is 57, on December 1st, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Most Important Thing
    Completed step number is 56, on December 1st, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Heart Messages
    Completed step number is 53, on November 4th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Follow Up with Members
    Completed step number is 52, on November 4th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Share Gratefulness
    Completed step number is 46, on October 22nd, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Welcome a Newbie
    Completed step number is 45, on October 22nd, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Provide 1-on-1 Support
    Completed step number is 43, on July 7th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 40, on June 19th, 2020

Feedback & Reviews
Brilliant, thank you
having a great chat
made me feel so much better
The listener was great! He really helped me with my problems!
Always helpful and understanding as a listener.
He really listened to me properly. He wanted to understand my situation, my personality, and my life. Started feeling horrible and helpless, ended feeling refreshed, energised, and happy. What an amazing person to really connect with!
Great talk! Awesome chat. He is very attentive and patient. The best listener here.
We are chatting only for a few minutes, but this listener seems like he understands it all. Amazing.
Active listener who asks questions to better understand your situation.
He gives time and actually listens to you closely without interruptions.
Great listener, very nice person
Hey thank you for being on this site. He is really helping. I feel better now.
We only spoke for a few minutes, but in all sincerity, there was an exchange of a lifetime of wisdom.
Very warm hearted and perfect listener
funny and thoughtful
He’s a good listener
He's awesome. Pick him to be your listener
Great listener. Would reccomend
One of the best listeners here! Very thoughtful responses, very empathetic, I felt super comfortable talking to him despite all the pain that I am going through and the vulnerability that comes with it. Thank you so so much for your support!! :)
Awesome - in short - reliable, honest and truly a good friend to converse with on this platform.
Respectful and a good listener, I felt supported and like they had an open mind, even with difficult topics they had no personal experience with (LGBT-related); they were willing to listen and try to see things from my perspective, and draw parallels between our experiences so they could understand better. Highly recommend.
He is really non judgmental ... open minded and honest person who really care a loot , he will not leave you until he change you mood highly recommended
He was a good listener and exactly what I needed. I am extremely grateful for the listening ear.
Absolutely lovely, I recommend him to anyone ♡
It was a pleasure just to speak to them. Great listener!
patient and kind willing to be online most of the time to help random strangers
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Questions Answered
How can I stop being a pushover?
December 1st, 2020 10:20am How can I open up to people more even if it scares me?
December 10th, 2020 10:51am How do I keep myself from getting to attached to people?
December 10th, 2020 10:49am Is it normal to not want to get better?
December 10th, 2020 10:49am My anxiety is getting worse and depression won't let me live my life, how do I overcome this?
February 14th, 2020 1:24am What do you do when you have no passion or drive?
December 10th, 2020 10:50am I feel out of place everywhere I go. It feels like being homesick but I feel it even when I'm at home. I'm starting to feel like maybe life isn't meant for everyone. How can I make this go away?
December 7th, 2020 6:24am What's the best way to get over someone calling you nasty names?
February 14th, 2020 1:20am Why do I feel that I am rejected or neglected by people?
January 26th, 2020 10:16pm How to get closure from my ex? I feel I need it.
January 26th, 2020 10:19pm