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Zeddem
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Relationship confusion
Relationship Stress / by Zeddem
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 October 22nd, 2019
...See more I cant think or feel straight anymore and would love some advice. I left my husband and father of my children 6 months ago- he got drunk and was extremely violent. A friend of mine was a massive support, we got close and started dating. This new guy, when we are together he is amazing, makes me feel good about myself and happy for the first time in many years. Trouble is I rarely see him as I have my kids/he works alot but doesnt always make as much time for me as he could. He also does not want to meet my children ever- so basically ruling out any proper relationship. He says he loves me but never wants kids. I've fallen for him massively though, so much so it hurts when we are apart. I cant concentrate at work and I feel myself resenting having kids as its keeping him away. I know that's not fair as it's not their fault. I sometimes i think the pain i am in means I should finish with him. But if I do that I dont have a single thing in my life that even just sometimes makes me happy. He's always there for me on the phone but just not enough in person. But even if I was to see someone else- not that they would have me, i would still have the same problems in that i wouldn't actually get to see them much because i have kids. Should I just finish it or accept this is as good as it gets? Also if i lose him i have noone. No friends or family nearby. Thanks for any advice or thoughts.
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