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ZoBunny
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Advice sorely needed
General Support / by ZoBunny
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April 8th, 2023
...See more Hopefully im in the right place....been trying to figure out how to deal with everything, however I would love if someone could dispense advice, anything at all. I've been wondering how to ...be a daughter again. I don't know if I even want to be. My mum has always been a chaotic parent. When men would enter the picture, suddenly my position in life was tossed aside. It still happens even now that I'm an adult. I've done everything I can...and in return she's burned my home, made me homeless for like 5 months and never apologized. But she wants a relationship now that another men has lied and cheated on her ....again. so, what do I do? What would you do ?
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General Support / by ZoBunny
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January 30th, 2023
...See more You know, I remember when I held out for hope. I remember a time where not everything seemed so bad. And I thought...finally....maybe I could be happy. Like....genuinely happy. I wasn't expecting every day to be good, however decent enough where it wasn't just surviving. Things were looking up. I started to take better care of myself, I got married to an amazing partner and we had a plan. And then my mum started going crazy out of nowhere. Yelling at us, crying at us, drinking heavily, harassing other people, blaming us for everything that went wrong in her life. And then the fire came. This Christmas, we woke up to the alarming message that my mum burned our home. In all her craziness she claimed it was an accident. We lost everything. And I feel like I lost a mum because I can't even look her in the eye without pity and anger. She made it worse by making my sister lose her job (she harassed her boss) & fend of her cats to us even though we financially aren't able to, and a million other things. I grieve the life we had. I grieve the life we were working hard for. I grieve hope.
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