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Zorby84
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Relationship Stress / by Zorby84
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 September 30th, 2021
...See more I've been married to my wife for 10 years. We used to be inseparable. 6 years ago we decided we wanted to try to have a kid. She needed help through a fertility doctor and the pressure was on for me... I choked. I just could not preform. I knew how bad she wanted a child and I wanted one bad too. We where able to have a child but she had to be inseminated. I think she took it as I was not attracted to her but that's so far from the truth I love this woman more than anything. We have not had sex since my child was born 5 years ago. Things over time just got worse. She was always the type to blame me for anything. She could be in a different room and hurt herself and it was my fault. But she would always laugh after and say she was careless or whatever. That is not the case anymore and is getting worse because she gets so mad. She will say she hates me she will say in the moment that she wants me gone and wishes she never met me. She says she loves me but it more now feels like she hates me. I love this woman with all of my heart but find myself avoiding her and just taking care of my child. I have no self worth anymore and any motivation I used to have is gone. I try to tell her we need to work together but she basically says work on yourself. There is so much more to this but I just need to figure out how to get the woman I love back. The woman I had when I was ready to start a family back. The woman who would bring the very best in me out and I would bring the best out of her. I need help
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