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aalexcummings
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PathStep 12 Compassion hearts18 Forum posts2 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2022 Member sinceJanuary 16, 2022
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Relationship Stress / by aalexcummings
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 January 16th, 2022
...See more Two weeks ago my ex boyfriend of one year broke up with me. During the relationship he treated me amazing, besides the fact that we used to argue and he would lash out and call me really mean things. He felt so guilty for doing so but i always made sure he didn’t feel bad and always forgave him. We were each other’s best friends. He used to break a lot of promises as well and I would lose trust a little bit but I always pushed my doubts away to believe him. I did so much for him like wake up at four in the morning and wake him up through the phone so he could do his chores. I blocked people for him. Didn’t go out so he wouldn’t worry about my safety. I didn’t wear certain things so he was comfortable. He also would ask if he did t want me talking to people or wearing certain things. But even when I was so overwhelmed I never gave up. His dad is mentally abusive and can be physically and I helped him through that. There was a point where he was overwhelmed with his dad how he treated ,e he didn’t know whether to stay with me or not. He ended up staying with me. But recently we broke up because we know we have to work on ourselves. We were texting here and there and he said he’d be ready by Valentine’s Day and then a few days later he told me he doesn’t want to try for a relationship again right now. I asked him if he saw a future with me he said no but that he wanted one, and that I was right person wrong time. iPad said he wasn’t emotionally ready for a relationship, was too immature and wanted to be single. Then he wanted to say bye but I had what I wanted to say and I ask I didn’t understand and still don’t understand what changed his mind. I asked if he would flirt and he so no not for a long time. The next day I caught him flirting and said he was like this guy who hurt me the same way but I wasn’t dating him, and then my ex got mad at me for saying that bc he hated him for doing that to me. I don’t understand why his mind did a 180 and why he fell out of love. He blocked me on everything and said it was because he felt guilty. But I saw he was posting tik toks all happy like he doesn’t care. Does he miss me at all? Did he care for me? Does our relationship mean anything to him? Will he regret losing me because I was a great girlfriend who put up with emotional abuse bc I knew he could change and saw he could before he did that and I was so proud of him. Will he end up missing me as a partner for me? How do I stop wanting him? How do I stop wishing him to come back to me?
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