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abrakadabragiligilochoo
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Men's Issues / by abrakadabragiligilochoo
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 October 5th, 2025
...See more Earlier I used to complaint a lot about not being able to make a girlfriend but I was often humiliated and judged harshly for that. Sometimes people gave advice "focus on yourself" which is cool, but I had been always really good in academic and have cracked really cool internships and jobs with very good compensation (I am 22M). Good at sports, excercise daily, can also produce some music. I had been to psychiatrist twice and have been taking regular therapy sessions from professional psychologist for more than 1.5 year now. Journals etc don't seem to help. my journey was like: I want someone who wants me. Then, I want to get rid of desperation of wanting someone to want me. Then, help me learn to live with the pain that no woman might ever want me. But all attempts have failed. But the hurt is really painful. I got my next session on Monday. Sometimes, I feel like how can it be such a big deal, why would I care about this so much, why would I be so desperate about it that I can not see anything other than this. I wish I could live like a normal person.
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