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adaptableOak8907
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Relationship Stress / by adaptableOak8907
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 May 29th, 2022
...See more Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and two months. We broke up a couple of weeks ago. Two days later we sat down and talked things out. She told me it wasn’t her intentions to break up. That she wanted to tell me all the things about me that have turned her off and are causing her to push me away. Said things like she feels I’m an adult child, that I’m codependent, that she wants to be equals and not play roles. Said that we need to work on ourselves. Told me that she thought us sleeping in separate beds would be good for her for right now. That she doesn’t feel like being intimate with me. okay so four maybe five hours after that conversation… she cuddles up to me on the couch. Asks me if I will sleep in her bed with her that night. I agreed. When we got into bed she cuddled up on me and then started rubbing all over me. She initiated us fooling around and of course going all the way. that was three almost four weeks ago. Can you say confusing asf? Since then we have not had another conversation about us whatsoever. All I’ve gotten since has been a peck or two a day. No touches. No cuddles. We have slept in the same bed basically since as well. helpppppp. It’s pretty much impossible for us to ever talk about us. So I could use some advice that isn’t just “oh try talking to her” 🤦🏼‍♂️
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