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adventurousJet2689
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Struggling to move on
Relationship Stress / by adventurousJet2689
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 July 12th
...See more He broke up with me. According to him he couldn't take the pressure and *** of this relationship. It was like I had some minimal expectations from him like if he could give me time and being a little understanding when I am feeling low...he obv did but not the way it should be. And when these expectations were not met i said him harsh things unintentionally which I regreted later on and said him sorry too. He always said to leave all these and not to waste time on this...which led to we never communicated properly and i never realised it was hurting badly as he never wanted to talk about that. Also after every argument he told me to breakup and find someone else. In between we also had romantic moments which also made me believe that everything is fine ...but it was not actually. And at the end during the last fight ...which obv I was at fault ...he said everything that he was always hurt and I always hurt him really bad...tho his actions hurt me many times...but I let it go Now the thing is I am highkey attached to him coz I am introvert ...I get easily attached to ppl ...and it *** my mind when they leave me. I literally cried begged infront of him to fix this again..I feel lifeless,feel sick,dizzy the whole day... doing absolutely nothing but he is stuck with his decision of not coming back... according to him he have so much else to invest time on rather than this Anyone can give me some suggestions on how to overcome this?
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Getting depressed to move out from a Breakup
Relationship Stress / by adventurousJet2689
Last post
 July 12th
...See more Recently he broke up with me because he couldn't take the load of the relationship. The real reason was I had some minimum expectations from the relationship and initially they were not met ...so out of sadness and anger...i said harsh things to him and hurt him unknowingly...he never said something harshly...but his actions hurt me unknowingly. I always tried to communicate with him about this...but he told to leave these things and don't talk about this. At the end of every argument he said to me to breakup if I want or find someone else this hurt me even more. There were less fights...but whenever it happened...it happened like this. In between we also had romantic moments for which I thought there were no issue and I was kind of delusional Since the last fight happened where obv it was my fault...he decided to breakup. I am kinda introvert and when I get close to someone and i get really attached to that person really bad that if that person leaves it hurts my mental health so bad. If anyone have any suggestion on how to overcome this ...it will be really helpful
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