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Is this relationship onesided??
Relationship Stress / by adventurousSky3066
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 May 19th, 2021
...See more Hey,so like a month or two ago I started texting with a boy(he/them pronounce for them)and we already were out on dates and on our 2nd date he kissed me(he's 1 1/2 year older than me)we get along very well and I feel comfortable with them and he makes me happy.But I'm worried now bc I'm always rhe one that texts first even when he wakes up earlier than me (I see it on other social meadia)he doesn't texts goodmorning ,I'm always the one that does this and it makes me feel insecure and I think he doesn't really wants me,even tho when we meet he always says:"I haven't felt this happy ina long time" and "I never hold eye contact with someone this long". But he also sometimes talks abt their ex,and on twitter he alsways reposts the pictures of this one girl and comments things like:How can someone be soo pretty omg I wanna marry you. I think he would choose her over me everytime,and I already cried alot bc of them and idk how to not overthink everything when he doesn't texts. Another thing is that he has depression too and once he said that if he doesn't texts for awhile he just wants to be alone and I understand that and want to give them space and time,but it hurts to see that he still texts with his friends normally it makes me feel like I'm not welcome in their life and he can replace me easily without missing me. I also saw a few time how he tweeted stuff like:"I'm unable to love someone" or "yeah i prefer more to be friends than being in a relationship " and I always just think that he should say if he doesn't wants this rn,bc I overthink this to the point were I want to give up. He also just didn't came when we had a date and I waited like 2-3 hours till he texted me that he's sorry and he couldn't come. Yeah and last night I send them a text that said:"Hey could we maybe meet soon?I want to ask you smth important but i don't wanna do this over the phone" And he just said:"ok" and when I now ask him when we can meet he always just says idk or I can't promise anything. And I just really need help with this situation bc idk what to do.
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