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 November 4th, 2024
...See more Hello Everyone, I'm new to this and a little nervous but I want to reach out I'm Struggling emotionally right now. It's kinda like everything is hitting at once. My ex broke up with me in April, moved out in May. (Together before this, 2-3 years all together) Apparently the reason was we were "incompatible" she said. I didn't contact her much she would contact me, then one day she kissed me which eventually turned into a friend's with benefits which she initiated I do take responsibility cause it takes too Here's the thing during friends with benefits she would send me mixed signals like wanting to cook me dinner, calling me babe, saying love you on video calls, etc... Telling me that she loves me, showing me a picture of our 1st date that she had in her nightstand drawer Basically it only lasted about a month and was told our futures/timeliness aren't on the same path, again to me that's something you'd say if you were breaking up with a bf Anyway, now she already has a bf after stating I ruined her for guys and she can't fall for anyone, yet she's working on herself supposedly Also we had a dog, when she broke up with me, she said it was half mine and now apparently now it's hers only I'm just struggling a lot with everything emotionally and mentally It's also complicated cause I sold my previous car to her mom which became the car for her 2 youngest kids. Her mom paid me half and still getting paid the rest from the kids (so far they have paid up to date) Plus still have some of her stuff at my place and some of mine at hers Problem is right now per her bf apparently I can only contact her regarding the car Payments. Anytime I contact her before I'd get venom and claws. I'm a good person, good man and don't deserve this. It's like she's trying to avoid all emotional responsibility and put it all on me Side note I have a broken upper fibula and high ankle sprain, been in a cast since 7th but hopefully will get into a walking boot soon. Right now some friendship would be great with me being limited physically Just feeling very isolated and lonely. I'm thankful for the help I've received, at same time wish I had more a support system Thank you letting me vent Adam
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