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...See more So I've been with my boyfriend for two years and a half and about one year ago we started long distance because he had to leave. Of course it has been a really rough year with ups and downs but we have managed, however my boyfriend has a problem that really affects me and I cannot fix, he insults me by calling me a *** or stupid. It's not even when we fight, he just says it very casually. I've told him multiple times and given him multiple ultimatums because this is really not okay with me, he has no right to call me all those things. About a week ago he did it again after he swore me it would be the last time and I just collapsed, he cried and I was about to break up with him but since I love him qnd I know he does too, I just couldn't do it. Since then I've been feeling like ***, I don't know if I made the right decision and he started therapy because he knew that if he didn't I would leave him. So, even though he is trying I just don't know if I should stay, therapy is a long process and this just has been going for too long. I love him with all my heart but I'm just so tired and don't know if I believe that he will truly change. Any advice?

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