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affectionatePine1038
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Relationship Stress / by affectionatePine1038
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 April 9th, 2022
...See more Hi i don’t know what to write or what to feel. My boyfriend of almost 2 years and I had a big fight three days ago. I have a past of people being abusive towards me and cheating on me so I get jealous easily but my boyfriend thinks it’s a trust issue. Maybe it is but I can’t help it. Maybe it is childish but I saw that he liked one girls’ picture and said to him that it bothers me and he got angry and said that it is childish for that to bother me, that it doesn’t mean he wants that girl or that he wants to cheat on me etc. Then we got into a bigger fight the day later because he was constantly on the phone during our videochat and I was feeling sad and disrespected. He got angry again, saying that he has to do that for his job to success (he works with people who want to lose weight etc. and talks to them on daily basis, checks on them etc.) and that he has to be there for people for them to consider him a good “worker” or what. But because he is there for his clients, he is not there for me and he doesn’t see the problem, or to say, he sees me as a problem and as if I don’t support him. He got really angry and wanted to break up with me, saying I’m controlling and toxic and that it wont work in the future for us, that I dont appreciate him and the things he does for me but later said that he will give me a second/last chance (we fought about it a few times earlier), after I begged for him to stay and said I would try to not be controlling. Still, I too feel very unappreciated and since that day we are distant, I am trying to show him extra love but it is hard when he is not giving it back because he is still not fully “recovered” from our fight, I cry all day every day, don’t have motivation for anything, I am alone in a city where I study at so it is extra hard for me and when I talk to my parents or anyone I just feel annoyed and want to go cry myself to sleep.
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