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affectionateTangerine9201
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LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by affectionateTangerine9201
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 January 26th, 2022
...See more Hiii this is my first post here hehe excuse my awkwardness So, a few years ago I questioned my gender identity, but thanks to all the transphobia I experienced on the internet, I sorta shut away that part of me that was exploring myself and settled in being a cisgender girl. Every so often, I think about the what ifs.. what if I had let myself explore a bit more?? Who would I be now? And I feel strongly connected with they/them pronouns. No one has ever used them to refer to me, but I feel really comfortable in them. There are also moments in my life where I feel a lot better when I present androgynous to people, but these moments come and go. I feel like the set of pronouns I’d use are they/she. However, I don’t think I experience physical dysphoria, and the label trans just doesn’t seem to fit. I’m not sure if it’s okay to go with these pronouns and still be cis, or if I might be non-binary. I’m so confused and telling people that I think I prefer they/she scares me.
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