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agreeableSpring1274
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Did I do too much?
20 & Over / by agreeableSpring1274
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 August 26th, 2023
...See more I’m in my early 20’s and am still in the weird spot where I pay for most of my finances but I’m still under my parents health and car insurance. Recently, my mom bought a luxury purse using my credit card because there’s no interest rate on it but it was $3,500. I don’t make much money so it wasn’t a small favor for me. I paid the bag off because I didn’t want to ruin my credit score but it took away from my rainy day savings. Initially, I thought they were going to pay me right back but it’s been about two weeks and she’s only paid me $500 back so far. While she was paying me, she was telling me to give her the car payment for her old car I drive which is about $370 anyway. I sent a bunch of long texts communicating why I felt uncomfortable with the situation and why I would’ve appreciated her being upfront with the plan to pay me back being laid out. She didn’t take it well and now they’re telling me to start paying for my own insurance if I was going to be stingy like this. I even told her she could take her time paying me back, it’s just that I needed to know how it was going to happen but I don’t think it got across to her. It’s going to be a deep cut into my finances and now I’m wondering if I went too far? My company has health insurance but I know it won’t cover the mental health care I’m currently receiving so I’m not sure if I can continue if I have to pay out of pocket. Any advice?
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