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ajayadiajay
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feeling pointless and lonely in life.
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when your partner doesn't initiate . the pain of feeling unwanted.
Relationship Stress / by ajayadiajay
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 August 13th, 2025
...See more we have been married for 6 years we have a 3 years old daughter, we both are working , from last 1 year or so may be more but from last 1 year since i have started noticing this i can not thought of a day when my wife initiated and intimacy or physical activity, the best she do some time is a hug or a micro second kiss, in start i thought its a libido thing may be i have higher libido and we talked about this in details that how she never initiate and how i feel unwanted i explained everything which i can , i explained i dont want sex every time you touch me or kiss me i just want to feel desired i just want to feel that you still want to kiss me want to love me thats it, i just want you to initiate ONCE in a while thats it . i just want her to initiate some physical love some intimacy once in a while. we have talked more than 5 times about this , i even cried once , but every time we talked she pretend to initiate for some day and i can tell that this is not naturally coming from her and she is forcing herself to do this and this brakes  my heart. i just want to be loved sometime to feel loved sometime physically , its not that i am fat or anything i go to gym 5 days a week a am healthy i almost have abs and toned body , and on the other hand i love her to death i love her so much , i love her body i am obsessed with her beauty. i dont know what to do anymore, i dont see a point anymore, i do everything that makes her happy that i know of, i sometimes thought about divorce but it will ruin our daughters life. i dont know what to do.
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