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I don’t know what to do.
Relationship Stress / by alienindisguise
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 September 21st, 2021
...See more I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 9 years now.. we had a beautiful child together in 2014. Our relationship has always been pretty rocky, he cheated a lot in the first 6-7 years of being together. But I always stayed because I loved him so so much. We got married in 2014, just a few months after our child was born. 2 years later we divorced because he wanted to see another woman. Well it didn’t last long and they ended up breaking up, and he wanted to be with me again. Of course I obliged, because, again, I loved him so so much. We’ve always had our fights, more than we should have, I’ll admit.. but fast forward a little bit.. his sister died.. and it really took a toll on all of us. Well, before his sister died, the relationship felt a little rocky for some reason, not sure why.. but the sudden death of his sister shook us all. He’s never been the same since, I haven’t either but I’ve coped. I love him, and always always will. But I don’t feel like I’m in love anymore.. I want him to be happy and successful and get the help he needs. But everytime I try to leave him (because I’m truly unhappy..) he threatens to commit suicide.. so I say never mind and stay.. but I don’t think this is healthy. I think that he is a narcissist.. but he doesn’t seem to think so. He says I’m the narcissist.. I love him and always will, I just don’t see myself ever being truly happy in this relationship. He tries to bring our 7 year old into our arguments or say very inappropriate things to her regarding me. Such as how I cheat on him and wanna be with other guys. Which is half false. I don’t just go out and cheat. But he seems to think so. I just don’t really know what to do and so I came here to possibly see if anyone had any advice.. I don’t think my mind will let me leave him as long as he keeps threatening suicide... it just hurts too much.
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