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ambitiousSummer3593
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Relationship Stress / by ambitiousSummer3593
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 February 20th, 2024
...See more Today he woke up early but did not make any breakfast. I leave it and go to the kitchen. The kitchen was a mess. I decided to make a tea. It was almost 12:30 PM. I made one cup of tea and went to the dining hall. He was sitting there, looking at his laptop and mobile phone. There were only two pieces of bread left, and he had eaten everything else already. I neverminded it and took the remaining two pieces of bread and the teacup. He asked me, "Didn't you make tea for me?" "When did you start drinking tea in the afternoon?" I asked back, and he didn't reply. I sat there and ate the remaining two pieces of bread. Then I went to the kitchen, cleaned everything, and started making rice. I was really angry at him and did not want to speak, but I could not control myself to keep quiet, so I hugged him. He hugged back. He went to the kitchen and took care of the other stuff.  Around 3 o'clock, he asked me to make some curry. I told him I wouldn't. Since he was really hungry, he went to the kitchen, made dry fish fries, and had lunch. He asked me to sit near him, and I did it. We decided to get out to buy some veggies and groceries since we were out of them. After finishing lunch, he went to bed suddenly, and I lay down near him. I started talking about the importance of finding a new job, and he slowly fell asleep while listening to me. I didn't disturb him, and I keep looking at my phone. He slept the whole three hours, and I didn't wake him up. I did some other housework, and it was almost 7 o'clock. I turned the light on since it was my shift starting time. I logged in and went for a bath. He opened his eyes and asked me, "Let's go buy groceries?" I asked, "Do you know what's the time now?" "No," he replied. "I told him to go and check the time. He kept on sleeping for one more hour. I was calling my mom, sitting outside, and he sat near me like nothing had happened.  What should i tell him?  We dated for almost three years, and we got married recently. He is one year younger than me. He completed his degree in 2020 and is working for a company for a very low salary. He always doesn't want to respond when I ask him about shifting to a new job. I completed my PG in 2022 and started working for a company the next month. I do night shifts, and I earn a triple amount than him. He already has three loans to pay, and I help him pay one loan and take care of the house rent and everything else. It's hard to live in a good way with my salary. So, I keep on asking him to do a better job. He is the kind of guy who does not want to talk about problems or sort them out. He is not ready to study for exams or attend more interviews. He always made excuses. Why should I spoon-feed him always? I always have to keep on ask him to clean the house or clean the kitchen and doing other stuffs at home. I am very much frustrated! he is taking everything silly and does not want to talk things. What should i tell him and what should I do now? 
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