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...See more I don't even know where to begin. I am 35 and have no clue what's normal and not normal anymore. I have failed at every relationship I've ever had. From wives to friends. I've been married 3 times and every woman has left me for another man. My wife of 5 years now left back in January for another man, slept with him and another guy and came back home the next month. Before she left I could tell I was losing her. She was distance and never wanted me to touch her. This lead me to belive I had sexual problems. She said I wanted it to much and put to much pressure on sex. I tried to put the moves on her 2 times a week and when we did have sex I could tell she didn't enjoy it. What has me messed up now is that she left and had sex 4 times in a month with 2 diffrenr guys that i know of. Now that she is home she is back wanting me 3 or 4 times a week but I can't get out if my head that they done something for her to make her like this. I am a kinky person and she was never into anything like that before but now she is. I don't know if it's something they done or she is just trying to keep me happy. Now I stay depressed because I don't want her to do anything she doesn't want to. I don't know if sex 2 or 3 times a week is normal? I'm affriad is she is doing it to make me happy then it won't last because it's not what she really wants. I'm always trying to out do myself when we have sex because she didn't want it before but did with other guys when she left. Sometimes I just get so depressed and can't stand the thought of sex. I just don't know what's wrong with me. I can't talk to her because when I tell her what makes me feel this way, she gets upset and tells me I don't need to bring the past up.

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