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amicableDay6579
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Slowly sinking
Depression Support / by amicableDay6579
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 June 9th, 2019
...See more I've been married for 15 years. We've, of course have had our ups and downs over the years. Have a total of 6 kids (3 together including a 9 month old). We're in our 40s. We both work full-time jobs, the kids who are still at home are very active in extracurriculars year around. I'm responsible for the kids, paying the bills, cleaning house, cooking, working outside the home at my job and so much more. He works long hours and takes care of the yard work and vehicles and believes thats all he has to do. I'm being yelled at constantly or criticized for what's done or not done. No matter what, it all turns into being my fault. I've tried talking with him then it turns into an argument cause he says I started it. No matter what I do it's not good enough. His days off, he does what he wants, goes fishing etc. My days off, he expects me to clean, grocery shop, etc. (Most of the time I'm at a tourney with one of the kids). Then he accuses me off not doing enough. He tells me to get my ass to work more even though I'm working 40 hours per week or more, He just expects more. I'm at my wits end. Slowly sinking into depression and wondering if they would all be better off without me. This morning after working night shift, I climbed in bed with him butt naked, only to be rejected (something he never does, he usually wants it all the timeand gets mad at me if I don't). His last words to me today before he went to work was "get your ass to work more" and then hung up on me. Help!
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