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...See more So I came to my girlfriend about one of my freinds touching me weirdly and I didn’t like it and that its been going on for awhile she asked why I never said anything (Im lesbian) i said i thought they would think that I would like her and I was scared if she was going to be sad or mad at me so she persuaded me to say something and I did but my friend said why didn’t I say anything sooner and said that she is straight and is in a three year relationship I never brought up anything about her liking me or anything like that so that put me down that she said that then she said that it made her feel bad and like she’s been assaulting me for months i didn’t know what to say so i asked my girlfriend to help and she said that my friend is getting mad that i'm placing boundaries i say that and then my friends call me all into a group chat to talk about it and when she was talking it sounded like to me she was mad because I told her I was uncomfortable and she said that everyone in the friend group is uncomfortable because i said something i just shut up because its all my fault that i didn’t say anything sooner i wish i could express my feelings and stop putting others feelings above mine but i think its because when my mom died i stopped talking about my feelings and bottled them up so now when i really want to talk about my feelings i cant i have no idea how to anymore i need help i cant understand why i cant be better and not hurt the people i care about any help is appreciated

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